Connect with Grandkids in the Digital Age | Senior Guide

When shopping for regular supplies, Ed noticed his granddaughter laughing as she was completely engrossed watching a series of funny cat videos. Curious about her reaction, he leaned closer and asked her what she was doing. She grinned and excitedly showed him the TikTok videos. Now, much to his surprise, Ed finds himself browsing the app on his phone. He enjoys sending LOL and OMG reactions to the videos that his grandkid shares with him.

If you’re a grandparent with tweens or teenagers in your life, you’ve likely heard them throwing certain buzzwords like “Instagram” or “Snapchat” in between conversations. Learning more about these modern tech trends offers you an opportunity to connect on a deeper level with your grandchildren, strengthening family bonds—much like Ed did as he joyfully embraces this new digital experience.

Why Does Technology Feel Different for Us and Our Grandkids

Grandkids can swipe through their smartphones as if it’s their second nature. If you often wonder how they learn everything so quickly, you’re not alone. After all, technology evolves rapidly, and along with that, the ways we stay connected with our families change too. But if you’re feeling a bit left out or puzzled by the functionalities of the latest gadgets, know that this feeling is perfectly normal.

There is a reason for the existence of a “tech gap” between generations. Your grandkids have grown up with smartphones, tablets, and high-speed internet by their sides. They are familiar with the new apps and hyper-interactive games, just as you once were with flip phones and dial-up internet connections. You might find the latest technology too complex, as it comes with its own set of language.

Moreover, technology today is quite chaotic, with something new coming up almost every other day. It can be challenging for anyone to keep up. Kids, however, often experiment with tech gadgets and trends, learning as they go. They pick up new tricks and aren’t afraid of making any mistakes. They often view technology as their playground, absorbing as much as they can, as if there is no tomorrow.

If you look at technology through the perspective of your grandchildren and treat it as your playground, adapting to it can become a lot easier. Here’s the good news – no one becomes an expert instantly, regardless of age. Don’t hesitate to ask your grandkids for help; in fact, they will be more than happy to share what they know. Start learning with them, and remember to have fun along the way.

Why Talking Tech With Your Grandkids is Important

Ed and his granddaughter had a chat about the latest app, and they ended up having a great laugh together over the content they viewed. Discussing technology is not just about keeping up with the times; it can also have a significant impact on improving the bond with your grandchildren.

Take advantage of the opportunity to enjoy more conversations and share joyful moments by showing interest in their world. For example, by simply learning how to send silly GIFs to your grandson or granddaughter, you can start a new tradition of texting each other relatable thoughts and feelings every morning.

Additionally, learning how to take selfies, following some texting tips, or figuring out how to make video calls can be a wonderful way to engage with your grandchildren. Along the way, you not just learn from them, but also get to share memories with the help of technology and fun trends you experienced.

Easy Ways to Start a Fun Tech Chat With Your Grandkids

To start a conversation about technology and the latest trends with your grandkids, you can use a few simple and friendly questions. Try asking them about their current favorite app or virtual games, or encourage them to share something cool or funny videos they have seen online recently. This way, you can invite them to share what excites them and what they love.

Another great conversation starter is asking them for a little help with your gadgets. For example, if you have bought a new iPad, you can ask them to show you how to set up Wi-Fi connections and work through the various settings of the device.

Sometimes, something as simple as asking them to teach you how to send photos can turn into a fun activity, like trying out funny filters together. These interactions not only open doors for good conversation but also give you a chance to discover what is new in your grandkids’ digital world.

Share the Curiosity

Learning something new is always more enjoyable when you do it alongside someone you love spending quality time with. Whether it’s making a video call to chat face-to-face, taking selfies to capture silly yet precious moments, or simply scanning through old family photos, these activities can bring a fresh spark of joy to your relationship.

If you are comfortable using your computer or smartphone, consider flipping the script. Ask them if there is a cool trick you can show them, like creating time-lapse videos from your walks in the park together when they were little babies. If you have figured out how to turn old photos into digital albums, allow them to choose their favorite baby photos to scan next. Moments like these make technology a delightful way to share knowledge and experiences, no matter who is leading the way.

Resources to Learn New Technology

If you further develop your skills, there are many resources available to help you learn about the latest technology and gadgets. Organizations like Senior Planet, OATS (Older Adults Technology Services), and AARP (American Association of Retired Persons) often offer free classes, online resources, and community programs focused on technology. Additionally, you can visit the local senior center, library, or Lifelong Learning Institutes (LLIs) to enroll in digital-related classes that cover a range of topics, from using a smartphone to managing online banking and paying bills.